{"id":1009,"date":"2026-08-26T04:05:12","date_gmt":"2026-08-26T04:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mealtips.delicedcook.com\/?p=1009"},"modified":"2026-08-26T04:05:12","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T04:05:12","slug":"at-6-i-promised-my-best-friend-wed-go-to-prom-together-12-years-later-mom-set-one-condition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mealtips.delicedcook.com\/?p=1009","title":{"rendered":"At 6, I Promised My Best Friend We\u2019d Go to Prom Together\u201412 Years Later, Mom Set One Condition."},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">MY BEST FRIEND WITH DOWN SYNDROME WAITED 12 YEARS TO KEEP OUR CHILDHOOD PROMISE TO GO TO PROM TOGETHER. BUT THE NIGHT ETHAN ARRIVED AT MY DOOR WITH A CORSAGE, MY MOM LOCKED ME IN MY BEDROOM AND SAID, \u201cSOPHIE, BEFORE YOU LEAVE WITH HIM, THERE\u2019S SOMETHING I HAVE TO CONFESS.\u201d<\/h1>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My mother locked my bedroom door on prom night.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That was when I stopped laughing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Downstairs,\u00a0<strong>Ethan Harper<\/strong>\u00a0was waiting for me in a navy suit, wearing the bow tie he had apparently purchased four months too early.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I could hear him talking to my aunt through the floorboards.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mom turned toward me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her name was\u00a0<strong>Eleanor Bennett<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And her hands were shaking.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou can still go to prom with Ethan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I stared at her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2019m glad we\u2019ve established that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSophie.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Something in her voice made me stop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBut before you leave,\u201d she continued, \u201cI need you to hear something.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her eyes moved toward the locked door.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then back to me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAbout Ethan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My stomach tightened.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat about him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cAnd about me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She sat on the edge of my bed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then said:<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI owe both of you the truth.\u201d<!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">ETHAN AND I BECAME BEST FRIENDS BECAUSE WE BOTH HATED RAISINS<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We were six years old.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our first-grade teacher handed everybody those tiny red boxes of raisins during snack time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was trying to hide mine beneath a napkin when the boy beside me whispered:<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThat\u2019s smart.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I looked over.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He was doing exactly the same thing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou hate raisins too?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThey\u2019re old grapes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I considered that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Technically\u2014<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">he had a point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOld grapes are disgusting,\u201d Ethan said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By lunch, we were best friends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dinosaurs made it permanent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ethan knew an absurd amount about them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I liked drawing them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Badly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first time I drew a Tyrannosaurus rex, Ethan stared at the page.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then asked:<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhat is that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cA T. rex.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He pointed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIt looks like a potato with tiny arms.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I shoved him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He laughed so loudly our teacher separated us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ethan had Down syndrome.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At six years old, that fact mattered much less to me than the fact that he cheated at dinosaur trivia by memorizing answers before asking me questions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our friendship was easy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Until somebody else decided it shouldn\u2019t be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">ONE BOY TOLD ETHAN NOBODY WOULD EVER MARRY HIM<\/h2>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our teacher announced she was getting married.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every child immediately became a wedding expert.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chocolate cake.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Flowers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Music.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One kid insisted weddings required trampolines.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ethan raised his 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