{"id":989,"date":"2026-08-26T01:34:37","date_gmt":"2026-08-26T01:34:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mealtips.delicedcook.com\/?p=989"},"modified":"2026-08-26T01:34:37","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T01:34:37","slug":"at-6-i-promised-my-best-friend-wed-go-to-prom-together-12-years-later-mom-set-one-condition-food-hacks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mealtips.delicedcook.com\/?p=989","title":{"rendered":"At 6, I Promised My Best Friend We\u2019d Go to Prom Together\u201412 Years Later, Mom Set One Condition. \u2013 FooD Hacks"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>MY BEST FRIEND WITH DOWN SYNDROME WAITED 12 YEARS TO KEEP OUR CHILDHOOD PROMISE TO GO TO PROM TOGETHER. BUT THE NIGHT ETHAN ARRIVED AT MY DOOR WITH A CORSAGE, MY MOM LOCKED ME IN MY BEDROOM AND SAID, \u201cSOPHIE, BEFORE YOU LEAVE WITH HIM, THERE\u2019S SOMETHING I HAVE TO CONFESS.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>My mother locked my bedroom door on prom night.<\/p>\n<p>That was when I stopped laughing.<\/p>\n<p>Downstairs,\u00a0<strong>Ethan Harper<\/strong>\u00a0was waiting for me in a navy suit, wearing the bow tie he had apparently purchased four months too early.<\/p>\n<p>I could hear him talking to my aunt through the floorboards.<\/p>\n<p>Mom turned toward me.<\/p>\n<p>Her name was\u00a0<strong>Eleanor Bennett<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>And her hands were shaking.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou can still go to prom with Ethan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I stared at her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m glad we\u2019ve established that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSophie.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Something in her voice made me stop.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut before you leave,\u201d she continued, \u201cI need you to hear something.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Her eyes moved toward the locked door.<\/p>\n<p>Then back to me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAbout Ethan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My stomach tightened.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat about him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd about me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She sat on the edge of my bed.<\/p>\n<p>Then said:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI owe both of you the truth.\u201d<!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<h2>ETHAN AND I BECAME BEST FRIENDS BECAUSE WE BOTH HATED RAISINS<\/h2>\n<p>We were six years old.<\/p>\n<p>Our first-grade teacher handed everybody those tiny red boxes of raisins during snack time.<\/p>\n<p>I was trying to hide mine beneath a napkin when the boy beside me whispered:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s smart.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I looked over.<\/p>\n<p>He was doing exactly the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou hate raisins too?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey\u2019re old grapes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I considered that.<\/p>\n<p>Technically\u2014<\/p>\n<p>he had a point.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOld grapes are disgusting,\u201d Ethan said.<\/p>\n<p>By lunch, we were best friends.<\/p>\n<p>Dinosaurs made it permanent.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan knew an absurd amount about them.<\/p>\n<p>I liked drawing them.<\/p>\n<p>Badly.<!--nextpage--><\/p>\n<p>The first time I drew a Tyrannosaurus rex, Ethan stared at the page.<\/p>\n<p>Then asked:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat is that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA T. rex.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He pointed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt looks like a potato with tiny arms.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I shoved him.<\/p>\n<p>He laughed so loudly our teacher separated us.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan had Down syndrome.<\/p>\n<p>At six years old, that fact mattered much less to me than the fact that he cheated at dinosaur trivia by memorizing answers before asking me questions.<\/p>\n<p>Our friendship was easy.<\/p>\n<p>Until somebody else decided it shouldn\u2019t be.<\/p>\n<h2>ONE BOY TOLD ETHAN NOBODY WOULD EVER MARRY HIM<\/h2>\n<p>Our teacher announced she was getting married.<\/p>\n<p>Every child immediately became a wedding expert.<\/p>\n<p>Chocolate cake.<\/p>\n<p>Flowers.<\/p>\n<p>Music.<\/p>\n<p>One kid insisted weddings required trampolines.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan raised his hand.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy wedding is having chocolate cake.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Our teacher smiled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGood choice.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd no slow songs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBoring.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A boy sitting across from us laughed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re not getting married.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ethan looked confused.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo who?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t know yet.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The boy laughed again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNobody\u2019s going to marry you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I remember Ethan\u2019s smile disappearing.<\/p>\n<p>I hated that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s mean.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The boy looked at me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSomebody will love Ethan.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He grinned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen you marry him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The entire table started giggling.<\/p>\n<p>Later, Ethan found me after class.<\/p>\n<p>He looked unusually serious.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSophie?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWould you love me?\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MY BEST FRIEND WITH DOWN SYNDROME WAITED 12 YEARS TO KEEP OUR CHILDHOOD PROMISE TO GO TO PROM TOGETHER. 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